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What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

11.06.2025 00:36

What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

I was 9 years of age.

So whats the point in blame.

She married twice! .

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I forgave my father, and i took care of him ,until his death in 1999..my mum left us on the 29th Jan 1998.

He call us down, from where ever he stashed each one of us ,that day ! We were kept seperate.!

Especially a lifetime of it.

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But im a psyci anyway, and i read energy and people, .

My mum and dad in the seventies!

Stress hormones Adrenaline and Cortosol ,would have flooded my brain, and they never left it!!!!

What is the story of how you met your spouse?

He said i’d end up like her, and he laughed his big rolicking bear of a laugh!

Trauma lives in the body, as ive explained, but it actually this that kills you in the end.

I never cut or harmed myself..

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Rather to engertic for me ,with my terrible health, but i was left to run the house, it was a Cottage in Dorset.

Thats was my nicest nick name for him

I only knew my twisted world , and there, is no choice for a child but to live in it. Or Die in it!

What’s the best way to get over someone you love?

I had many talking therapys , but they just don,t work.

I got to know the terrible awful childhood, he had himself. And his Jolly Pub Persona.

Youll pack your bags and leave Dorset.

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On the 31st of Jan this month .

But im an empath, and i help lots of people.

She found it foreign!.

Why is it common for guys to sleep with 10-20 women then marry a good girl?

One women pretended to my husband she wanted to see me for coffee ,and make friends.

And as runt ,of the litter .Which of course, i actually was!

I wasn’t taught any boundries, our home ,was like any war zone , and Dad told us, he had bodies buried, under the floor boards.

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He weighed in at 5 lbs .I was the second born, and i weighed 3 and a half pounds.

They are buried together, in the same grave..

My twin will have involuntary pissed himself, but not me at least not, that day!

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I ended up cooking for her, and bringing her eveywhere with us.

It comes from Big T Trauma and is no fault of anyone who has it.

Took her away on holiday ,with us, my 2 pugs her dog, a Jack Russell.

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Im a true spealist, because i study it for years .And i still do..

Due to the real legacy of trauma (B.P.D)

I of course replied” arh beautiful!

She was deluded, and thought she could stay on for the reminder of the holiday!

I do have abandomment issues but they come from being left alone ,without my mum, or any of my family in a incubator for 4 months.

As i do to all so called friends.?

When she asked me how she looked .

All the time i was locked up.

But i am married 43 years to my husband this July !

I forgave my father,, and in those years i cleaned and looked after him .

His abuse (his own) began at 2 years of age. His mothers friend, sexually abused him, from the age of 2.

Insight, and i can spot a wrongin from 3 miles away.

She died at 55 of colon cancer.

I was the most vunerable of my siblings. I was born small ,and was sickly ,and of course none of us could ever thrive!

And as she herself ,wasn’t kissed or touched as a child.

Why did i forgive my father ?

We wern’t close any more, the family fractured, after my Mothers death, and seeing me annoyed them ,as i was the familys scapegoat..

She died young (from the stress and abuse of Big T Trauma) of liver cancer!

Mine was extreme ,and lasted 19 years

Also my liver and lungs are fatally diseased!

I know ,a lot about trauma.

I did it because my mum asked me too!

But im dying ,and its too late for me.

I had offered the whole expense of the holiday to her, free.

You don’ t get a state one here , in England ? until your at least 67 yrs old ! Im 63.

One cannot hold on to bitterness.

My familys so full of ancestral BIG T Trauma.

Comes on , in middle age.

I was scared of men, in general

He did pay me though, i made him (.After i’d trudged miles to get his pension ) Before ,it all was gone, over the pubs counter!

But it wasn’t much.

Those are used to try and block the pain, like that of my life out..

We all went to grammer schools

And ive living now since 2005, on disablement .(Which is a pittance)

What did i know ?

I write beautiful poetry .

For him, I cleaned and cooked and shopped, and spent the whole day, doing a weeks work) in the only day off, i had, besides Sunday.)

The apprentership one gets in Extreme Big T Trauma childhood is insight and extreme awarness.

Put me off passion for life!!

One was a lump hammer, another was a iron chisel.

This is how, and why children get BPD.

She said her life with him ,was love, and spoke to me of all the passion, it had brought her.

So, i spoilt her more .

But i went to school ,and was locked up evey evening , until he was off out on a bender..then mum would set us free, and we,d be bouncing off the walls,

I have no regrets .

He isn,t a very sexual person at the best of times!

I am a twin , my twin is a boy called Alan. I had a sister and 2 other brothers

Im dying but, im not bitter.

She was in good health!

Thats being isolated in a house, locked up as a child .We never saw any people except in School and we had no relatives in Liverpool!

His mum and dad ,were Alcoholics!

Because huge Trauma like mine is alive.

One of his many names for me was Runt .He like that it rhymed with (well you know)

Because , i didnt have the heart to hurt my friend.!.

We born here on earth , for the soul to learn , the contrast, of heaven.

The only rule us 5 kids had .

BPD only comes to a person who has suffered childhood trauma.

But people really die of the Big T Trauma!!

It was going to be , some day.

.I left my 2 sons and my husband to do it. Instead of spending the day with them

My mother wasn’t a tactile women ..only as babes could she touch us. After we grew ,she couldn,t touch any of us.

My place (mostly )was the coal hole..it was a small room heaped with coal .

Being very nice and never wanting to say the wrong thing.

Anyway, i told my husband ,and he was gobsmacked.

I let him have the joy of his friends( that i would never know myself.!)

When he wanted one of his lessons to be taught!

Her first husband, had been a gay man ,and he was a lovely person.

He resisted the act ,that day.

I might have to go back 30 generations or more..

5 of us kids, and it wasn’t a big house.

He was dying to do it , i knew.

He took out the hammer, and explained again, how the smallest tap ,of this hammer would kill me in a second.

Your thinking ,but those kids would have been street wise?

The same beautiful brown eyes my mother loved so much!

But, we were locked up after school.

So he went home with my mum to her 2 other children.

And if you hold on to hate you only die inside yourself,!

So i became my fathers slave and he hated me the most.

Everytime, i saw a chronically ill person in middle years.

He said i reminded him of an old aunt ,who used to beat him, and when the menapause came, she was placed in a mental home and never was released ,until she died.

And when you live in a life , of being terrified, and shocked, and permantly stressed; especially as a child born in to all this .

The coal was sharp, and i usually had no underware! So my bare arse ,was cut and rossened on the coal..

But my sister and my other 3 brothers wouldn’t have come near him every again!

And don,t forget my 4 months alone, in the incubator. Knowing my brother in the womb and my mother voice .The baby knows she’s alone!

This is soul school!.

And i know him well ,and every thing about him. This relationship, is the only real one iIve been able to keep!

As his daughter ,he didn’t even think I wouldn,t do it. (Look after him)

I suffer greatly, because of BPD..

And i lived it daily.

Ther’s very good reasons why i was left alone.

I don,t even have a pension.

Do all the shopping, and cooking and look after all the dogs.

My life is so biszare .

I think the readers, may guess!

I couldn’t, believe it.

We could never speak unless he spoke to us!

Why do we forgive? Because if we don,t

He’d sit me down, and stand behind the chair, Then he’d make a great show of his beauty (the chesil )and place it behind my neck ,at the base!

Anyway ,i could never hold on to a relationship.

She got all dolled up, but it looked as she was dressed up to play the part of , Florence Nightingale ,as she descended down the cottage stairs ,like a Queen.

As i said though i will be 64 on my last birthday!

I was seconnd youngest,

Its a big thing in the States for the last 25 years.

My dad was a alcholic psychopath, and violent in the extreme.

As i gave and gave ,everything to people, they began to use me.

I waited trembling.

Yes, a stroke or heart attack is the reason on your death certificate.

Then he’ d take out his beloved lump hammer ,show it to the kids.

We were all going out this night to a fancy resteraunt.

We were not on the streets..

The only way to get rid of it forgood ,is sommence therapy,

Another so called friend had bit the dust..

Im constanly in a state of FLIGHT or FIGHT my whole life

But ive been too sick for many years..

And who doesn’t know suffering?

But it has taught me many things other people will , never know!

I did write a poem about him though, and my mum.

She loved him until the end.

She wouldn,t have been !

(And it was in our own minds.)

19 years ,i spent with dear old papa.

I was very sick at this time too.

Im kind ,and give many things, inc money ,to any of persons in need. I have a groups of homeless beggars ..i help out daily. They all know me by name!

Who then, do I blame.?

My family never makes their pension either.

I will be 64.

He had many friends, who didn,t know the home devil he was, for his sake ,i never enlighted them either.

I immediatly know and see what their chidhood was. I tell them you had a awful time in childhood.

Where the ultimate outsiders.

Although he,d calmed down a bit ..he still shouted his orders at me and thought , my older sister would be better at the job..

One cannot live in the past .

Was to survive, this bastard.

Its mostly always from childhood abuse .

Why ? because Trauma depletes the immune system.you get terribley ill , with chronic disease from all the horror ,and stress of it.

We didn’t no it wasn;t normal life..we were isolated, and taken from Dublin in Ireland ,where our whole mothers family lived , to Liverpool in England!

They look at me amazed ,and ask me how i could possibly know it?

He was a brick layer (when he worked at all) and he carried his tools around ,hanging from a money belt.

Trauma never leaves you! Its actually lives in the fashia ,of the body .The connective tissue.

And, all my friends down the years ,where users.

I was grabbed out of my mother hung upside down, and rushed up to the prenatal ward, to spend 4 mths alone, with, only medical staff.

I only stopped writing poetry recently, because , of my brain tumor

I said to her

He’d bring us out ,and we would form the position .

But there where , these other acts only us 2 girls, would receive, (When id have rather had his lump hammer , and chisel.).

I could never make a relationship work though!

With Catholic nuns and Church on Sundays.

Ive learnt so much.

It will be my last birthday ,as im dying of a brain tumor and 8 other autoimune diseases.

As is all addictions, people can’t leave off.

Even in the coal hole, i said the lines in my head..

But he said ,he was sick of her anyway ,and only put up with her as i had a friend ,and seemed to be happy.

Then later on when my husband had gone to the bar..she started telling me, that they where having a affair, and that he loved her much more then me ,and other loads of visious lies.

Would this be the day?

As she had lost her son ,to fatty liver disease!

She stayed with him because she thought he,d grow out of it. He didn’t of course!

Im still living with it.

Although we always gave her a kiss on the cheek. She would shrink away from it!

You’d think that being brought up for so long, in those terrible circumsatances ,i would know the ways of people ,and the world, but i wasn,t in , nor of the world .

I had hoped to write a book about this .

I watched his eyes light up and his twisted smile rejoice, in his joy of it all.

A line in front of him, from the eldest to the youngest.

At this time i had honed my heart to the same, as that of a lion and i knew i wouldn’t beg or cry ,nor plead.

He knew the spot.

Like some twisted love , they where addicted to each other

I worked then as a chef ,and a very good one.

My only sister also couldn,t make her life work.

She was a women, a mother with her own children!.

I was writing from the time i was a small child.

Its like, taking poison, and hoping the other person will die.

That life, was meant to be , as the world teaches us great lessons, and leaves us many gifts.